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Handling The Pain- Do Not Fall For Excuses |
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When you ask smokers the cause for their smoking, their
instant reply will be to de-stress. Suppose your three-year-old toddler
is crying for a toy. How would you react? You will give him the toy,
leave him, or give him some drugs to keep him calm. Similarly, your
child is anxious about the coming tournament. In order to calm him down,
you will advise him, or give him some kind of drugs.
In all the above said examples, the child is suffering from some
kind of pain or anxiety. You can control the temper of your child by a
little advise, support and assurance. The cause for their anxiety is the
demands during the development phase. When we grow physically,
emotionally, academically or spiritually, we experiences anxiety. We
should never take our growing phase as burden. All of us have the
tendency to become sad or feeling pain or anxiety. But, we must try to
overcome this attitude. We can never be happy without this growth.
Growth plays significant part for our contentment and happiness.
We can never introduce our child to this deadly addiction, as we are well
aware of its consequences. Do you think it is good to smoke for
attaining relief?
Smokers make several excuses for smoking. For Instance, feeling lonely or
having a lot of job stress. One of the several common excuses of smoker is
that there is no fun in social gathering without smoking. This clearly shows
that smokers make excuses to smoke. They smoke in stress as well as fun.
Women often say that quitting smoking means putting a lot of weight. Do you
think it is a justified cause to smoke?
Smokers are well aware that smoking is injurious. Thus, to divert their minds
they make such excuses. The cause for these false excuses is the addiction of nicotine.
Once you quit the smoking habit, you will realize that smoking only harms. It
does not help you from overcoming the stress. But, it is the cause for
several deadly diseases. Even after quitting smoking, you may tempt to
have a cigarette. You may be tempted at social gatherings or feeling
lonely or sad. Before taking cigarette, remember that smoking is nothing
but killing oneself. It never helps you. It only harms you and makes you
weak.
Whenever you want to smoke, just give a few seconds to yourself. You will realize
the blunder, you are about to commit.
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